Sowing Seeds of Otherness

Sowing Seeds of Otherness

Otherness is defined by Merrium-Webster as 1: the quality or state of being other or different

2: something that is other or different.

   “ I knew as well as I knew anything that the oppressor must be liberated just as surely as the oppressed. A man who takes away another man's freedom is a prisoner of hatred, he is locked behind the bars of prejudice and narrow-mindedness. I am not truly free if I am taking away someone else's freedom, just as surely as I am not free when my freedom is taken from me. The oppressed and the oppressor alike are robbed of their humanity.”Nelson Mandala

Ephesians 4:31-32 New International Reader's Version (NIRV)

^" Get rid of all hard feelings, anger and rage. Stop all fighting and lying. Don’t have anything to do with any kind of hatred. ³² Be kind and tender to one another. Forgive                                          one another, just as God forgave you because of what Christ has done."

I am in hope that as we in this nation awaken more to the understanding of systemic racism and the oppression of woman, that we would not forget that hatred begets hatred.  There is much in the history of this country that is tainted with White Eurocentric privilege and oppression and yet there is also much in its history that is redemptive and allowed for more freedoms than many previous societies.   When  I look at all the unrest with the status quo of unjust systems I see with expectation . Change is good. Boldness to speak up and out is good. Courage to go and stand firm in seeking justice is a God centered value.

BUT when is it ever beneficial for the oppressed to turn and become the oppressor? When is it healthy for those who have been the “other’ to sow seeds of otherness? I cannot help but simply peer back only a short while ago to Rwanda. Genocide. The oppressed gaining power to then wield it in the form of a Machete. Words beginning the easy slip into a murderess mob. Words of otherness, words of hate sowed and eventually blown up into full hatred and a loss of sight for humanity. The very thing those who had been oppressed desired; to be counted worthy and equal. 

My heart is sad to witness bitterness and such vitriol being spoken and sent out into the internet. There has and remains injustice and systems that are broken. Man, by nature tends towards corruption even in the noblest of intentions but we individually and collectively must begin to learn from the past. Let us monitor our words. Can we ever justify what we are spewing out even if we were once on the receiving end of it?  Has change ever come about through anger and hate? Love and relationship is the most effective tool. Conversations, breaking bread with our enemies, finding our commonalities.To find points of sameness does not negate or say the pain caused in the first place is invalidated.To  give voice to injustice without degrading your “opponent’ is life giving. It is in fact a beginning of healing for those who have been treated as other. 

I look often to Jesus as my model, who does not  make distinctions about external differences rather looks to the heart. He who came in a lowly manner to serve and save humanity. He called out inequality in the pharisees yet invites all to partake in learning to love God and one another through relationship with him.
I often fall short of loving but hope to seek to be purposeful in not hating or creating division. And I beg forgiveness where I have explicitly or through complicity allowed injustice to stand and ask those who have been hurt to not hate me but come and talk about it. Let us all invite those we deem as other into our spaces and sow seeds of forgiveness, seeds of belonging, seeds of hope instead of otherness.

Who is my enemy?
by Dale cupo

 So disheartening,

 When the world still sings
"You are the bad guy", its they verses we.

 But really Who is our enemy?

We need to cease our theorizing

And stop our constant compartmentalizing.

Color, creed, religion, sexuality not our Foe.

We say yes we understand but our actions say we're slow.

 When we get right to it we often make a wedge

Using Democrat, Republican, Libertarian as a hedge,

Or even more division using religion

To designate wanted and unwanted based on type of sin.

All fall short of the created intent.

All have need to turn and repent.

Entering in as partners against hate,

Stop using each other as an escape.

 Our call as Gods children to reach out and love,

The many, lost, lonely, addicted and unloved.

Partner with those who we call nemesis,

Come together and stop the arrogance.

With new vision see all who in desperation and destitution cry.

We are in truth each an ally.

The enemy is that which separates and divides.

Prayer for 2019

Prayer for 2019

Our Father who is in Heaven, your name is holy  and to be venerated. Our hearts desire is for your kingdom to come and work through us but we cannot do it without your Holy spirit, we are asking for more of your presence this year and a new boldness. (let us pause and ask  God where and how he wants us to be  bold)

You jesus are  our portion , our daily bread… may we continue to hunger and thirst for the manna that you give and may all else lose its flavor.Teach us how to steward your resources, including all of your creation as well as your gifts, not hiding them or abusing them but learning to be in harmony with your heart which says, all you have made is good.

We thank you that you forgive us our shortcomings and do not hold that against us, that your mercy and grace never run dry for those who are called by your name. May we be a people overflowing with your mercy for those around us and may we gain a wider perspective of who we are called to extend Grace to  and not allow a bitter root to take hold

( Lord show us where we hold on to unforgiveness and where we need to seek forgiveness individually and corporately)

Lead us away from the temptation to follow our own ideas and preconceived thoughts.  Teach us to surrender not only our stuff and time but our theology . Give us greater insight  and wider vision for how to live kingdom minded .We pray for eyes to see through the lens of our eternal God, who is calling all nations to himself.

Adonai Give us your thoughts about how to live in greater unity, sharing with each other and looking out for those who are the least of these, finding our common ground in you instead of our differences. (Ask the holy Spirit to show us where we create division and how we can unite with others)

We are asking for wisdom that can only be attained by being in your word and spending time with Jesus the living word. Breathe new life into us, revive us as we learn to quiet our hearts and sit at your feet not just at church but giving you the first fruits of our body, soul and spirit.

Yahweh Help us to not take stands on the issues of men but be moved to action by your love for us. Abba father help us to have a greater understanding of your love and Jesus’ desire for right relationship. That we would learn to wait, listen , wait and listen again and then   be propelled into action, seeking true justice, bringing glory to your name.

We pray for greater obedience in the small things this year , in hope of being a part of  the greater works you prepared for us. Father God we thank you that we have been harvested, let us arise and awaken to the fields that are ripe.

Teach us to step where you lead and to not run ahead of you. To be obedient to your call to set the captives free, care for the widows and orphans, to share our bread and welcome the foreigner.

Thank you God  for Jesus' work of redemption,  please help us to live in the knowledge that we have been completely restored into a  right relationship with the father and can come into the throne room into his presence simply because of the work of the cross.

Father God may we have eyes to see where you want us to shine your light into the darkness and have a boldness to push past our fears. (ask God where fear has stopped you from growing)

We thank you  that we are totally and unequivocally loved and accepted through the power of Jesus’ blood. Lord God help us to get out of our own way so that you can have your way and receive all the glory for yours is the power and glory forever.