There are those who are over-comers and my mom is one of
them. She has not only endured but triumphed over a past filled with traumatic
ritualistic abuse. She married young to escape her environment of abuse and neglect
and managed to raise four semi sane children. Then faced single motherhood head on. She took the bull by the horns and pursued going to college getting her associates, bachelors, masters degree and eventually completed her PhD. As the youngest my memories are filled with an overall sense of love and
bravery amidst the crazy. My mom allowed her children to explore and find
adventure. She introduced us to nature with our trips to Maine and camping
trips later on. She continued that legacy of adventure with her many trips to the
beach with the grandchildren, teaching them how to crash the waves. As life
became difficult and the memories could no longer be ignored she bravely waded
through counseling, facing the past and vanquishing “demons’. My mom has
displayed immense courage in seeking forgiveness from her children and in
always striving for a better relationship. She has boldly stepped into the body
of faith, allowing God to continue the healing process. My mom loves
unconditionally, accepting step kids, in laws and others into her circle without
restraint. Those who her children love
become embraced as her family too. She is also very patient with a daughter who
lacks in the communication department never accusing or scolding. My mom is the
right mom for our family and is an example of courage and quiet strength.
This is beautiful and another reason why my respect for your family is high! The difficulties you faced and braved, my hat's off to you! Thank you for sharing this insightful view into your mother's life! A treasure.
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